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Steelcase Tanker Desk & Goodform ChairOne of the most common mistakes that preachers make is too much time behind a desk. Preachers do need time for study and sermon prep along with balancing the many demands of pastoral ministry. But if preachers never get away from the desk, they will soon lose touch with people.

“Many a preacher misses the mark because, though he knows books, he does not know men.”
~James Stalker

How well do you know the people in your community? What are their hopes? What are their dreams? What are their struggles? What are their fears? What are their Hobbies? Jobs? Favorite TV shows? Favorite music?

Many pastors know a lot about dead authors, but nothing about their people. So their preaching soon becomes irrelevant to the people they are called to reach.

This is the delicate balance of pastoral ministry. Too much time away from the desk and your ministry will suffer. Too much time behind the desk and your preaching will suffer – not because you aren’t prepared, but because you aren’t connected. Continue Reading…

a father's loveDo you ever feel like your ministry is getting in the way of your family? Do you ever feel like your relationship with your spouse is worse because of your job? Are you worried that your kids will fit the statistic of becoming messed up pastor’s kids?

You aren’t alone.

  • 80% of pastors feel that ministry has negatively affected their family.
  • 80% of pastors’ wives wish their spouse would have chosen a different profession.
  • 50% of pastors’ marriages will end in divorce.

Too many pastors sacrifice their family for their ministry. It is easy to justify neglecting family for doing “The Lord’s work.” It sounds super spiritual. However, is that what God really wants?

Chew on this thought: If you don’t lead your family well, you are not fit to lead your church.

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The Week of a Pastor

Can you relate?

Self examinationThe best way to learn and grow is to ask good questions. Here are 7 Bible-based questions that every preacher needs to ask them self.

Bonus: If you really want honest answers and are feeling brave, ask your spouse or a trusted friend to answers these questions about you.

1. Who am I really trying to please?

Are you only trying to please God? Or are you spending all your effort to please everyone else?

You will never be able to please everyone. Stop trying to. If you fail to please God, you fail completely. But if your life and ministry pleases God, nothing else matters. (Galatians 1:10)

2. Am I keeping the main thing the main thing?

Many pastors preach on a lot of different topics, but aren’t focused on the main target. Sometimes I wonder if many of us have forgotten the reason we preach in the first place. Continue Reading…

Manger scene HDRFor a church, Christmas Eve services are typically one of the highest attended days of the year. Therefore, a great message is essential on such a big day.

So here are 5 tips to help as you prepare your Christmas sermon:

1. Keep it short.

I’m not going to tell you how long you should preach. But whatever your average time is, shave some time off of it. If you normally preach an hour, shoot for 45 minutes. If you speak for 30, shoot for 25. End early if at all possible.

Whatever you do, don’t go long! It is rude to families with plans afterwards. It is rude to volunteers helping at multiple services. Finish exactly on time or earlier than you said you would. Everyone will appreciate it. Continue Reading…